Godly Order – God’s Order for the Family and Creation

Have you ever found it challenging to maintain balance and unity in your marriage or your home environment? Does it ever seem like something is just not working? You are not alone! However, God’s order for the family lays a foundation for stability and peace in the home. At Be in Health, we call this foundation ‘Godly Order.’

What are the benefits of God’s order in the family?

When man and wife come together in unity according to God’s design, their children can reap the benefits of a safe, stable environment as God intended. Godly order is one of the teachings that we present during our week-long For My Life Retreat. It is also available in the For My Life Online course.

Pastors John and Adrienne Shales present a snippet of the Godly Order teaching in this video clip from our For My Life Retreat. Discover how you can apply God’s order for the family and creation to your life.

Here are a few key points that this teaching addresses:

-What is Godly order, and why is it essential for your life – married or single?

-What is the fallout when Godly order isn’t represented or is misrepresented in the home?

-How does God represent Godly order through the roles of the different members of the Godhead – Father, Son, and Holy Spirit?

-What are the blessings that come from living in God’s order in the home?

-How should the husband and wife relate to each other according to God’s ways?

-How can a couple learn to communicate with each other and come together in unity properly?

-Who should be the true head of the home? (Hint: it may not be what you think!)

-What specific roles did God design for the man and woman to maintain in the home?

-What might be getting in the way of maintaining Godly order?

-What does 1 Corinthians 11:3 mean?

But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman [is] the man; and the head of Christ [is] God. 1 Corinthians 11:3 KJV

This dynamic teaching will answer these questions and more!

The powerful benefits that accompany the restoration of God’s order in creation

It has been said, “So goes the home, so goes the world.” In this day and age, this statement couldn’t be more relevant. What if the most dramatic change to social structure begins in the home? What if the misrepresentation of God in the home is fueling the enemy’s strategy to draw people away from Him? We must establish in our hearts that God’s ways are perfect and seek His Word to discover the purest form of His plan. It is essential that we begin to understand Godly order and seek God for wisdom to apply His design to our lives.

The law of the LORD [is] perfect, converting the soul: the testimony of the LORD [is] sure, making wise the simple. 8 The statutes of the LORD [are] right, rejoicing the heart: the commandment of the LORD [is] pure, enlightening the eyes. 9 The fear of the LORD [is] clean, enduring for ever: the judgments of the LORD [are] true [and] righteous altogether. 10 More to be desired [are they] than gold, yea, than much fine gold: sweeter also than honey and the honeycomb. 11 Moreover by them is thy servant warned: [and] in keeping of them [there is] great reward. 12 Who can understand [his] errors? cleanse thou me from secret [faults]. 13 Keep back thy servant also from presumptuous [sins]; let them not have dominion over me: then shall I be upright, and I shall be innocent from the great transgression. 14 Let the words of my mouth, and the meditation of my heart, be acceptable in thy sight, O LORD, my strength, and my redeemer. Psalm 19:7-14 KJV

God’s design for order in the home has been distorted and forgotten and we see the effects of this with the breakdown in the homes. Now is the time to reorient our hearts with God’s true will and His ways. When we do this He will begin to restructure the home as He intended. He is the perfect Father, He knows exactly how a family unit should function. He designed the home to be a safe place for all of its members to learn and grow up together in Him. This is only possible when we give God the Father the position as the head of our homes.

Today is the day to start your overcomer journey!

We invite you to join us on this life-changing journey of healing and restoration that we call the overcomers’ journey. We are dedicated to fulfilling the vision and mission to establish generations of overcomers that God charged Dr. Henry W. Wright and Pastor Donna Wright with when they first began the ministry of Be in Health.

The For My life Retreat is a week-long, intensive healing retreat where you can find healing in God for your spirit, soul, and body. We have also developed the For My Life Online course, where you can participate with us from the comfort of your own home.

Be blessed and enjoy your overcomers’ journey!

The Be in Health Team

Find out more about our For My Life Retreats!

This article is part of the For My Life Sound Bite Series.

Check out these articles to learn more about the other teachings we offer and get more insights into spiritual discernment, the power of God’s love, and how He can heal you and help you become an overcomer!

Foundational Insights – This is the core foundational teaching that encompasses the heart and mission of the For My Life Retreat. On this foundation, the whole Retreat is built.

The Father’s Love – The number one most important thing for every person’s Overcomers’ Journey is to be restored to Father God’s Love. Without a relationship and trust with the Father, it is very difficult to move forward as an Overcomer.

8 Rs to Freedom – 8 steps to recognize and overcome the enemy’s influence in your life.

7 Steps to Sin – Discover the enemy’s strategy to lead you to sin and learn how to stop him at his game.

Spirit World Realities – Learn how the enemy’s kingdom can operate in the earth and the Biblical origins of our spiritual enemy. This understanding will demystify Satan and his kingdom and help you defeat the fear of evil.

Separation – Learn how to recognize the enemy’s strategy to divide and destroy relationships and get smarter than him. You can recognize and hate the sin but still love the person just like God does for us.

Pathways of Thought – How can a spiritual kingdom influence our thoughts? Discover the pathway of thought from the spiritual through thoughts, feelings, and emotions to its effect on our physical health.

Disease Profiles – Discover the possible spiritual roots that can lead to specific disease classes.

Water Baptism– Water Baptism is one of the sacraments of our faith. Discover why Water Baptism is an essential step in your Overcomers’ Journey.

Blocks to Healing – The Bible tells us that there are certain things that we can agree with that will get in the way of healing. Learn how to recognize and overcome these spiritual blocks to healing. And discover the surprising #1 Block to Healing.

Self Pity – Dr. Henry W. Wright often said that Self Pity is the superglue to hell that binds us to our past and prevents us from moving forward in our future. Learn how to discern this evil spirit and overcome it in your life!

Accusation – Accusation is a tool that the enemy uses to twist the truth and lead us into bondage to sin. Learn how to recognize and overcome the spirit of accusation in your life.

Bitterness – Learn the seven steps of bitterness, including unforgiveness, anger, violence, and murder. With these insights, you will be able to defeat this stronghold and operate in God’s forgiveness and peace.

Envy and Jealousy – Discover how Envy and Jealousy keep your eyes on the object of your desire to prevent you from trusting God and receiving His best for you.

Rejection – Learn how to overcome rejection in your life.

Occultism – Understanding Occultism and why we need to be free from it.

Unloving – Recognize if you are not giving and receiving love to God, yourself, and others. And learn how to walk in love as God intended.

Addictions – Learn what the Bible says about overcoming addictions. God wants to help us be free, and receive our comfort and identity from Him.

Fear – Fear is something that most of us have had to face at some point in our lives. Discover where Fear comes from, how to recognize it, and how to overcome it!

Walk OutWe have the freedom to walk out of things that have once bound us. Learn what is walk out, why it is important, and how to do it.


Here are some more articles and resources related to this topic:

The Biblical Order of the Family Unit – By Scott Iwahashi: Is Father God the Head of Your Home? Establishing God’s order means that God needs to be put back in His position as the head of the home. Find out how you can receive the wonderful benefits of freedom, peace, and unity for the whole family with God’s help.

Passivity – A Comfortable Trap: Passivity is a major block to Godly order in the home. Learn how to discern and overcome passivity in this insightful article.


Godly Order – By Dr. Henry W. Wright

You can purchase the entire, unabridged “Godly Order” teaching in our resource center Here! Taught by Dr. Wright, this teaching is sure to be impactful and life-changing for you and generations to come!

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