Envy and Jealousy Robbing Our Identity

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Our identity as children of God is one of the most important and valuable things that we can apprehend in our overcoming journey. If we are out of touch with our value and acceptance in Him, we will be unable to receive and give His love freely. We may find ourselves stuck and struggling with issues that do not allow us to accept ourselves or others or keep us isolated.

The enemy knows full well how dangerous we can be to his kingdom when we walk as children of God and grow into maturity in who God is in us. There is nothing scarier to the Devil! So he has carefully crafted ways to subvert us and to keep us from that understanding. One specific way is through envy and jealousy.

As children of God, it is important for us to be content in our own journey and to develop a trust in our Heavenly Father that He has our own best interests in mind. Envy and jealousy won’t let us come to that place of trust. It will divert our attention from our Father’s gentle leading to get us focused on other people, what they have, where they are at spiritually, how successful they may be and the list goes on.

But godliness with contentment is great gain. 1 Timothy 6:6 KJV

We have to come to terms with the reality that everyone has their own unique journey and story and that God is growing them into the specific position that He’s created them for in His body. When we see another person who has found their place and is thriving in their calling, do we compare ourselves to them? Envy and jealousy is a sneaky trap because the enemy knows that if he can get us to become so focused on another person’s success or position, we can never grow up into the position that God created us uniquely for.

For as the body is one, and hath many members, and all the members of that one body, being many, are one body: so also is Christ. For by one Spirit are we all baptized into one body, whether we be Jews or Gentiles, whether we be bond or free; and have been all made to drink into one Spirit. For the body is not one member, but many. If the foot shall say, Because I am not the hand, I am not of the body; is it therefore not of the body? And if the ear shall say, Because I am not the eye, I am not of the body; is it therefore not of the body? If the whole body were an eye, where were the hearing? If the whole were hearing, where were the smelling? But now hath God set the members every one of them in the body, as it hath pleased him. And if they were all one member, where were the body? 1 Corinthians 12:12-19 KJV

This is not just personal. The enemy hates God! You can see through this scripture how if the enemy can divert any body member from their designated roles, he can actually sabotage the body of Christ! Spiritually speaking, we are no longer just battling this principality for our own health and welfare but for the wholeness and the unity of the body of Christ!

Envy and Jealousy can create a sort of spiritual disease in the body of Christ. Here is what the enemy would love to do. He will cause the members to look at other members and get sidetracked from their own roles. He will bring in comparison and cause them to covet what another body member has. Then bitterness will come and convince them that that other person really doesn’t deserve what they have and it should be their own instead. Here come spirits of division, accusation, and strife that will take the opportunity to tear apart the unity of peace in the church.

Another tactic the enemy might use is to cause a person to compare themselves to others and try to conform themselves into the image of another person instead of the image of God. In this case, instead of that person growing up into the wholeness of who they were created to be, they try to act as if they are a different part of the body than they are. Therefore, the member that they were created to be is missing from the body.

Not only is the body of Christ suffering through this but the individuals who are caught up in this trap are suffering as well. Envy and Jealousy brings real and serious side effects. It brings breakdown and disease in the body. The Word says this:

A sound heart is the life of the flesh: but envy the rottenness of the bones. Psalm 14:30 KJV

We’d love to think that this is just a creative play of words but at Be in Health® we’ve noted, through many years of observation, that envy and jealousy can actually cause some serious diseases specifically in relation to the health and strength of a person’s musculoskeletal system. According to our observation, we have noted that envy and jealousy can be a contributing factor to diseases like osteoporosis, arthritis, teeth problems, and multiple myeloma, to name a few.

What we see is that when a person has an issue with accepting themselves in their identity and envy and jealousy joins them alongside rejection and bitterness towards themselves and others there is a physical breakdown in their body in response to this spiritual dynamic.

So how do we combat a principality that has in many cases become so familiar to us that it easily flies under the radar and doesn’t often receive the attention necessary to defeat it?

Firstly, we need to reestablish our trust in God, in His goodness and His promises. If we don’t trust God that He has the absolute best plan for our lives and if we don’t believe that when we line ourselves up with His will and His ways we will find the completeness of satisfaction in who He created us to be, or if we don’t believe that we are accepted and acceptable just the way we are but think that somehow we fall short or are some sort of accident, we can never experience the wholeness of His plan for us. There will always be something missing. We’ll find ourselves striving and performing and searching without finding because we are looking everywhere except to God, who is our source, to fulfill our longing for belonging and identity.

If the Word says that every good and perfect gift comes from our Father, we need to believe that with our whole heart. Anything that says otherwise needs to become the lie and this needs to be established as truth.

Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, and cometh down from the Father of lights, with whom is no variableness, neither shadow of turning. James 1:17 KJV

If the Word says that God is faithful to complete the things that He has started in us, we need to believe it, and not only that, we need to put down the reigns and submit to Him in humility and meekness so that He can actually do the work that He needs to in our hearts.

Being confident of this very thing, that he which hath begun a good work in you will perform it until the day of Jesus Christ. Philippians 1:6 KJV

Faithful is he that calleth you, who also will do it. 1 Thessalonians 5:24 KJV

If the Word says that we are accepted in the beloved, why are we striving to be something or someone else? Why are we striving or performing to be anything other than who we were designed to be?

To the praise of the glory of his grace, wherein he hath made us accepted in the beloved. Ephesians 1:6 KJV

And if the Word says that we are thoughtfully and wonderfully made and that God knew us before He even placed us in the womb, how can we think that we are an accident or a mistake?

I will praise thee; for I am fearfully and wonderfully made: marvellous are thy works; and that my soul knoweth right well. My substance was not hid from thee, when I was made in secret, and curiously wrought in the lowest parts of the earth. Thine eyes did see my substance, yet being unperfect; and in thy book all my members were written, which in continuance were fashioned, when as yet there was none of them. How precious also are thy thoughts unto me, O God! how great is the sum of them! If I should count them, they are more in number than the sand: when I awake, I am still with thee. Psalms 139:14-18 KJV

God wants you to accept yourself as His son or daughter and to begin to walk in confidence in Him, right where you are at, not in what you do or how you look or how well you perform. Did you know that stuff is of little importance to your Father in Heaven? What He treasures is a heart that desires to seek Him, to love Him and to be like Him when we grow up. He needs teachable children, not children who are running around trying to be or do something important.

There is an incredible peace we can find when we realize that we are enough. When we stop looking around, stop striving, stop beating ourselves or others up because of what we are or aren’t and just rest and trust that He will do His work in us as we open our hearts up to Him in love, relationship, and fellowship.

Envy and jealousy will work to separate us from God, ourselves and others. It will drive us away from the course that has been set before us and make us believe that another one seems more desirable. Don’t you think your creator knows best what you were designed for and where you will be most satisfied? Do you think that the enemy could have any good plan for your life?

There may be things in our lives that have joined us generationally or through the course of time that are not of God. We may see those things, those flaws and hate ourselves for them. We may see others who are free from that stuff and wish so desperately to be more like them. That is how subtly the enemy can divert us from keeping our attention on our loving Heavenly Father.

As we grow up to be more and more like Him, He will help us to separate ourselves from those things that are not from Him and to peel them off and overcome them. We will not overcome any of these things by performance or control or by trying to be like another human being. We don’t have a clue what’s going on inside their hearts, for all we know, we may just be seeing their own mask that hides the things that trouble them within. The only true and surest foundation is found in God who does not change, who is all knowing, and all powerful. He even knows us better than we know ourselves. He sees us separate from these things that bog us down. He sees the son or daughter that He created from the foundation of the world and He is so looking forward to helping us realize our own potential.


The Be in Health® Team

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By Be in Health| 2020-04-24T08:14:12-05:00 April 24th, 2020|Encouragement, Overcoming|0 Comments