Biblical Insights into Suicide and Forgiveness

Facebook
Facebook
PINTEREST
PINTEREST
Twitter
Visit Us
RSS

Biblical insights into the link between the power of forgiveness to shift perspective, defeat dread, and prevent suicide.

My heart grieves that we lose so many precious people to suicide. Every. Single. Life. is precious. Nearly 800,000 people die by suicide in the world each year, which is roughly one death every 40 seconds (World Health Statistics). Suicide is the 2nd leading cause of death in the world for those aged 15-24 years, and the 10th leading cause of death in the US for all ages (CDC). Sadly, suicide is not just an issue in the world, even Christians succumb to it. I want to talk about a major spiritual principle that can lead believers out of the bondage of suicidal ideations and the dread, hopelessness, and despair that accompanies it. I want to show you Biblical insights into the link between the power of forgiveness to shift perspective, defeat dread, and prevent suicide.

Preparing my heart

Running errands in town last week, I picked up a brochure on Suicide Prevention that caught my eye. I stuffed it in my purse planning on reading it later to see what the National Institute of Mental Health suggests for suicide prevention.

Later that day, I was in a different city an hour away from Thomaston. When I glanced at the wall of brochures on my way out of the public library, one immediately caught my eye: “La prevención del suicidio.” It was a brochure on suicide prevention written in Spanish. I thought to myself and to the Lord how interesting it was that those two brochures would catch my eye in one day while in two different cities.

A personal encounter

While walking out of the library, my husband called, and we chatted about evening plans. As I came around the fountain in front of the library, I saw a young woman heaving in tears. She had brightly colored hair, sleeves of tattoos, piercings and was visibly struggling emotionally. A ping in my heart of concern led me to reach out to her as I recalled the way the Lord brought suicide prevention to my attention that day. I asked the young man with her if everything was okay. He smiled and said that everything was fine. Me and my mama’s heart scooted past him, and I sat down to engage the young woman face to face.

“Hey sweetie, are you okay?” The dear, but broken woman sat up and wept about the pain and depression in her life. She wrapped her arms around me and embraced me and asking for help. I found out she had attempted suicide the day before and her will to live was weakened by the oppression and abuse from her past.

The healing power of God’s love and forgiveness

Within 20 minutes, we had a clear and meaningful conversation about Father God’s love and forgiveness for her. I explained how He sent his only begotten son, Jesus, to die on the cross for her sins. She willingly and humbly prayed with me to acknowledge Father God's love and how Jesus died on the cross for her sins. She repented to God for all of the sin in her life and received His forgiveness.

A visible peace and joy eased over her face like a slowly emerging sunrise. Looking straight into my eyes, she asked, “Can you still see the pain in my eyes?” I had already noticed it was gone, and as I told her I didn’t see the pain anymore, she wept with joy.

It was a setup!

That day, Father God heard her cry and dropped me into her path to help pull her out of the horrible pit.

Psalm 40:2 He brought me up also out of an horrible pit, out of the miry clay, and set my feet upon a rock, and established my goings.

But why do Christians struggle with suicide?

Understandably, she struggled with the grip of suicide on her life while lost and under the influence of the enemy. But we don’t always understand why born again believers, children of God, find themselves under the same death grip of suicide and suicide ideation.

At Be in Health®, we glorify God for the great success He has in delivering His people from depression, self-harm, suicide ideation, and suicide attempts through the For My Life® Retreat.

Behold, the LORD’S hand is not shortened, that it cannot save; neither his ear heavy, that it cannot hear. Isaiah 59:1 

The enemy’s strategy

The enemy has a strategy, and he knows how to take a Christian down. We need to understand how to overcome all temptations. The For My Life Retreat teaches you how to learn to APPLY what the Word of God says so you can truly have the victory!

Be sober, be vigilant; because your adversary the devil, as a roaring lion, walketh about, seeking whom he may devour. 1 Peter 5:8

2 Spiritual factors

Many risk factors complicate suicide. I want to share two spiritual factors that we can address that will make a vast improvement towards the cause of suicide prevention. They are unforgiveness and dread. Understanding these two factors and learning how to apply what the Bible says about them can break two of the legs supporting depression, self-harm, suicide ideation, and suicide itself.

When you experience any type of abuse: emotional, physical, verbal, or sexual, a deep wounding can occur in your heart.

The spirit of a man will sustain his infirmity; but a wounded spirit who can bear? Proverbs 18:14 KJV

Pain out of broken relationships

From serving in the church for over twenty years, I observe that the emotional and spiritual agony of complicated relationships can bring us down. Unforgiveness related to those relationships can keep the piercing and wounds in place, which brings more oppression and depression and diminishes hope and joy.

What can bring relief and a release from this pain?

Forgiveness from your heart leads you to the peace you long for again.

Taking responsibility for your own life is one of the first key principles we present in the For My Life Retreat. You can do this by choosing to forgive every person, offense, and trespass against you. In this action of forgiveness from the heart, we have witnessed great healing in every area of people's lives; in their heart, mind, and body.

Do you want to understand God’s standard for us to forgive others? Read every word of Matthew 18: 21-35.

In light of all the countless trespasses Father God has forgiven us of, we, in turn, should forgive all men and all women their trespasses and sins against us. The sins of others against us pale in comparison to the trespasses for which God forgave us.

Matthew 18:33 says: Should we not have compassion on others and forgive those who have offended us even as our Father in heaven has had compassion on us and forgiven us?

Shouldest not thou also have had compassion on thy fellowservant, even as I had pity on thee? Matthew 18:33 KJV

Remember, we don’t forgive because we feel like it; we forgive because we love God.

If ye love me, keep my commandments. John 14:15 KJV

Like standing under a thunderous waterfall, blessings and massive benefits will overtake you as you obey Father God and forgive everyone from your heart.

And all these blessings shall come on thee, and overtake thee, if thou shalt hearken unto the voice of the LORD thy God. Deuteronomy 28:2 

Do you remember the “fast kid” at school recess as a kid? He darted around like a cheetah, the fastest land animal in the world, tagging you every time! When you forgive, then the Spirit of God will chase you and tag you with the richest blessings for your life!

An exciting find

I was excited to find an article in the Journal of Spirituality and Mental Health, supporting this concept that practicing forgiveness reduces suicide.

This article, Forgiveness and suicidal behavior in primary care: Mediating role of future orientation, confirms that forgiving oneself, forgiving others, and receiving forgiveness from God lessens suicidal behavior. The article stated that the practice of forgiveness related to greater future orientation and, in turn, to less suicidal behavior. This means that those who forgive from their hearts are freed from the emotional and spiritual pain that ties them to their past. As a result, they have renewed HOPE for their future.

Searching your heart

Right now, begin to search your heart of who has offended you and forgive them. Make your list of who you need to forgive, including forgiving yourself for past or current failures. Then receive the forgiveness and release your heart so desperately needs from God. You will find that the pain that has been locked up in your life will ease, and a spark of hope will rise up.

Recognizing and defeating dread is the second key that can help prevent self-harm and suicide.

What exactly is dread?

Dread: noun – Terror or apprehension as to something in the future; great fear.

Verb (used with object): to fear greatly; be in extreme apprehension of…

After continual disappointment, abuse, betrayal, depression, and rejection, a person might find themselves with emotional pain or numbness that they can’t see past. Rooted beneath this pain is a spirit of dread, which is a form of fear fueled by the enemy’s kingdom.

For God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind. 2 Timothy 1:7 KJV

How does dread affect us?

Dread says that the pain won’t change, and the circumstances won’t change and we dread the continuation of the agony. It tells us that the pain can’t be relieved apart from the expression of self-harm or the taking of one’s own life.

In The Fascinating Dynamics of Dread, an article by Leon F Seltzer Ph.D., he says that the very expectation of pain can cause a great deal of misery.

How do we overcome?

First, you need to recognize that these thoughts are not your own thoughts; they are thoughts coming from the enemy’s kingdom. Then you can begin to separate yourself, in your heart, from these voices and feelings.

Casting down imaginations, and every high thing that exalteth itself against the knowledge of God, and bringing into captivity every thought to the obedience of Christ. 2 Corinthians 10:5

1. Recognize that dread, unforgiveness, and fear are your enemies. They are the ones stealing your hope and joy. Reach out to God, even if it is with a glimmer of faith whispering that He is good and has a plan to get you through this torment.

2. Believe that self-harm and self-destruction are never the answer but only bring more pain and more torment.

3. Memorize or keep some hope scriptures near you; they can help you press through the pain. Get them in your heart now, so you have them already a part of you when the enemy visits you with hopelessness.

I had fainted, unless I had believed to see the goodness of the LORD in the land of the living. Wait on the LORD: be of good courage, and he shall strengthen thine heart: wait, I say, on the LORD. Psalm 27:13-14 KJV

4. Talk to God about what is troubling you. Not only does He care for you but He's in love with you!

Casting all your care upon him; for he careth for you. 1 Peter 5:7 KJV

5. Find someone who you trust, is godly, and a safe place to confess these burdens and pains to so that you can get encouragement and support.

Confess your faults one to another, and pray one for another, that ye may be healed. James 5:16 

If oppression and depression overshadow your life, please come to our For My Life Retreat.

The University of Stellenbosch performed a double-blind, peer review study on the impact of the For My Life Retreat. The title of the study is, Effect of a Faith-Based Education Program (For My Life® Retreat) on Self-Assessed PHYsical, Mental, and Spiritual (Religious) Health Parameters (PHYMSH for short). The study concluded that those attending the For My Life Retreat experienced lasting positive results in the reduction of Major Depression as well as Stress & Anxiety-driven illnesses.

91% of major depression was reduced to mild to no depression

90% reported a reduction in their stress level

86% indicated that stress no longer affected them negatively

88% reported a greater ability to cope with illness in general

84% reported a more positive outlook on life

Your life is precious.

Father God has plans that you were meant to fulfill, and that will bring you joy.

For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus unto good works, which God hath before ordained that we should walk in them. Ephesians 2:10 

My prayer for you

I pray for you that oppression and heaviness would leave you in the Name of Jesus. I pray faith would well up inside of you. I pray Father God would reveal who you need to forgive and that He would give you the strength to choose forgiveness today. I believe that He will give you discernment to see any fear and dread in your life. And that the Father’s love and hope will penetrate your heart. Father God, Jesus, and many other people need you on this earth, and we want you whole and full of hope and peace! In the Name of Jesus, Amen.

Be blessed,

Pastor Adrienne Shales

FREE Printable Scripture Art Download:

9 Scriptures to Restore Hope

FREE Printable Scripture Art

Enter your information below and receive this FREE Printable scripture art: 9 Scriptures to Restore Hope in your inbox!

 

 Did this article bless you? Like it, Pin it, and Share it with others!
A powerful exhortation by Pastor Adrienne Shales on the power of forgiveness to restore hope in God, remove dread, and renew a positive outlook on life.   FREE Printable Scripture Art: 9 Scriptures that will help restore your hope in God and defeat fear and dread in your life.

Facebook
Facebook
PINTEREST
PINTEREST
Twitter
Visit Us
RSS
By Be in Health| 2019-11-14T10:51:32-05:00 September 20th, 2019|Overcoming|0 Comments