My position is for all victims to be removed immediately until someone decides where their treasure is.
For where your treasure is, there will your heart be also. Luke 12:34
This is true whether the victim is an friend, husband, wife or the child. We are not going to play games with victimization. The tragedy is just too high a price to pay. If we had taken a stand at this level against victimization a long time ago, we would not have the tragedies and post traumatic issues it is causing today. You cannot go back into a victimization situation in the name of love. It is codependent. It is further victimization. It is built-in guilt and you will not be able to have your peace. No one is spiritually strong enough to be a door mat for this type of thing and survive it for long. Remember my definition of codependency? Calling evil good in the name of love.
