WRAPPING UP

It's about getting the order in your home right, and the authority. When we get our hearts right before God He can set things right.

It starts with you. Check for Bitterness. Is there self-bitterness? Is there bitterness towards God? Ask God to show you. If there is
bitterness in you or between you and your spouse it will be reflected to your child and any conflict you and your spouse have will be reflected to your child. They will be the representation of the manifestation of conflict, even if you try to suppress it, because autistic children have more theta brain wave activity so it will manifest through them. Any rebellion in you will be reflected in them.

Prayer: Father, we ask you to pour out your love upon our friends that struggle with these issues. Draw them close to one another.
Draw them nigh to you Father. You are what they need. Teach them your ways. Reveal to them what they need to know and do to bring
healing into their lives. Help them to share you with their children. We pray for the children, that you may spread joy and peace and love in their hearts, and that it may be shed abroad on their whole family, in the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth.

MINISTRY HELPS

A primary causative reality in ungodly order is: the role reversals in the family-dominant female in the mother and the passive male in the father.

The confusion coming out of this dynamic is subtle and results in an open door for the dumb and deaf spirits to gain access to the soul.
Thus, the neurology of the individual is impacted.

The driving force behind ungodly order is: the buildup of bitterness that has been simmering in the generations.

First, we find bitterness in the females who have contempt for their weak husbands and second, we find bitterness in the husbands for
the dominant wife. In addition, a deep penetrating resentment fuels the ungodly order. That is the self-hatred the man has for himself.

To Identify Ungodly Order in the Home You Might Ask the Following:

· Does the husband relegate all discipline and financial decisions to the wife?
· Is the wife in fear that if she doesn't handle things, everything will fall apart?
· Is there a matriarchal mother-in-law too involved in the marriage?
Perhaps the passive husband had a dominant mother or the matriarchal wife is just repeating what she saw growing up.
· Are children's needs a higher priority in a marriage than the spouse's?
· Is the wife the spiritual leader of the home? Responsible for seeing that the children get to church and are educated in the ways of the
Lord?
· Are decisions about employment, housing and credit shared?
· Is there respect for the father?
· Does the mother encourage the children to keep secrets from the father? 'Daddy doesn't need to know about this' or 'Don't tell Daddy.'
· Does the wife show respect for her husband in public or is she always talking over him as if he were invisible?
· Do the husband and wife display affection towards each other and model a healthy relationship for the children?
· Is the wife constantly "sharing" with her girlfriends, Mom or sisters personal issues about her husband instead of talking to him
directly?

Any one of these issues may indicate that there may be ungodly order.

ROOTS

In looking at the possible spiritual root issues of autism, we have found often there would be spirits of: generational ungodly order in
the home (dominant females and passive males); dumb and deaf spirits out of occultism; inherited bitterness, anger, rage, and resentment; self-bitterness, self-hatred, self-rejection, and guilt.