All the evil things that were said or done to you in the past will scar you and make you feel unlovely but you must understand that in the new birth you became a new creature.
Paul says, "I find then a law that when I would do good, evil is present with me, for I delight in the law of God after the inward man."
Proverbs 18:14 The spirit of a man will sustain his infirmity; but a wounded spirit who can bear?
The Unloving spirit and Fear are linked together side by side. Both are antichrist. An Unloving spirit is deeply rooted in Fear.
The Unloving spirit is an antichrist spirit sent to steal, kill and destroy ...you!
Iniquities are passed to the next generation when family members vent their "stuff" on you and you accept it.
Romans 2:1 Therefore thou art inexcusable, O man, whosoever thou art that judgest: for wherein thou judgest another, thou condemnest thyself; for thou that judgest doest the same things.
If you look into the mirror and you don't think you are the "fairest of them all," you may have an Unloving spirit looking back at you!