WRAPPING UP

It's about getting the order in your home right, and the authority. When we get our hearts right before God He can set things right.

We must try to focus on being a 'lovebug'. It irritates us sometimes, but we need to be that lovebug, because God is love. God is love and He doesn't want our children to be tormented.

Learning to walk in Godly order is not easy in the beginning. The bottom line is we all fail on a daily basis. If we have drivenness, we are going to struggle to let ourselves off the hook. That can be an open door to self-bitterness.

As parents we may be accused by the enemy, through other people or in our mind that our kids are behind or whatever the accusation is. But there really is no such thing as being behind. God teaches us according to where we are at. However, we need to decide, do we
believe the accusation? If we believe the accusation it gives it credibility and we begin to respond to it.

Have there been any significant improvements in dealing with autistic children?

Anita: In autism, we have generational spirits of ungodly order in the home with the dominant females and passive males, dumb and deaf spirits out of occultism, inherited bitterness, anger, rage, resentment, self-bitterness, self-hatred, self-rejection and guilt.

When God's family order is broken, one of the first spirits that can enter the family dynamics is the dumb and deaf spirit. This spirit inhibits our ability to communicate with God.

The church has a problem in that the minute you try to teach generational inherited curses, most pastors will ask you to leave their church because they say you are already free. Yet, your families are as goofy as a three-dollar bill and nobody is admitting it. Now that's not a negative statement. It's an honest one.

Autism is an interesting expression of ungodly order. Autism is fruit of the anger. It is complicated because now both members of the marriage are angry. She's angry; he's angry.

When there is ungodly order in the home, we pervert the plan of God. Then we have diseases such as dyslexia, gender disorientation, or autism. Each of these represents various facets of the breakdown. We find it is generational. In fact, it's amazing to me that when I find learning disabilities, especially ADD or ADHD, without exception I find strong females and weak males; or the male may be passiveaggressive.

Passive males bring destruction to the family. When males are passive and do not take their proper place representing God as Father and Jesus as husband to the church, there is no covering for the wife and family.